I’M NOT YOUR FUCKING SLAVE

I AM NOT YOUR FUCKING SLAVE………

Right now as I write this. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I’m not angry and this post isn’t written from that perspective so kill that ish.

Those that know me, and the “struggles” I’m going through right now would probably ask “how is this even possible?”  Like how can she be happy? Well I’m happy because I’m finally free to be me, and I really don’t care who approves. God didn’t make a mistake when he said it was my time here on this hell we call earth.

Any who as I write this blog to the black parents out here that think beating your child is equivalent to raising them I say listen up and listen well.

I AM NOT YOUR FUCKING SLAVE!

  • You aren’t God, and he didn’t make my temple for you to beat whenever the fuck you see fit.
  • You are a fucking parent now that involves doing parental shit. Your daughters aren’t your live in baby sitters, and black momma’s your son ain’t your fucking man.
  • I’m not your maid.  Just because you gave birth to me doesn’t mean I was put here to personally serve you. (Children are a blessing and should be treated as such.)
  • Love is an action and beating my ass doesn’t constitute love rather it shows that you lack self-control and don’t know how to sort out issues with your words. (old black Christians don’t come for me)
  • Yo ass didn’t give birth to me, to put me out at 18 having taught me nothing other than how to keep a clean house for massa lol, cook and parent my younger siblings.

I SAY IT AGAIN I AM NOT YOUR FUCKING SLAVE.

Black parents kill me  doing all the before mentioned ish then act all shocked when little Mercedes ass is pregnant at 16, or when little moth ball is behind bars because you gave him everything he wanted his entire life without actually “raising” him, now he thinks its OK to steal for what he wants.

I watched this conditioning play out with my own daughters. When I was “raising” my children so I thought; you know the way in which most of us my age were raised. I discovered that I was actually training my oldest daughter how to be a mother. (IT’S not your child’s responsibility to parent their siblings)

At this moment I stopped conditioning my children and really started raising them. I then learned things about them that I never even knew. I learned that my youngest actually could read and just had to be taught in a more loving carefree type of way. I learned that my oldest already wanted to have a baby, and she was just 8. I stopped and really started changing up my approach with my two little girls and now my oldest sees that being a mother isn’t something she’s truly ready for. My oldest daughter now wants to pursue all of her dreams, every last one of them.

Children are your blessings. Your child should be talked to and treated just like black mothers treat their fucking flowers. They should be watered and cared for in a loving way. Yelling and screaming at your children so you condition them to be afraid of you, because somewhere deep down in your cotton field DNA you are afraid for your seeds to do better than you. This can’t surely be the way.

Raising your kids doesn’t mean smoking weed on the phone with your girlfriend and never interacting with your children. Balance is important here. Telling your child you love them, but never showing them is insane and doesn’t send a good message to them. Black preachers stop passing down fear, poverty and just straight fuckery to our black community. We are not descendants from slaves we are descendants of KINGS and QUEENS. Knowing this will help you carry yourself as such, Kings and Queens help their Princes and Princesses transform into royalty.

 

 

LET YOUR CHILD BE A CHILD

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We were never placed on earth to have to work our lives away and be slaves to the world for it to be harmonious. For those Christians out here who are going to attempt to discredit my opinions please sit down.

God gave Adam and Eve everything they needed and wanted; it wasn’t until they became greedy that sin became a factor; work, pain and hell soon followed. Training your child in the way they should go doesn’t mean whip, and beat your child the same way those before us were forced to conform.

It means love, and aid your child towards an acceptable direction in life. (not your acceptable either, but whatever makes your child happy) learn your child, allow your child to be free and expressive.

 

MOST IMPORTANTLY LOVE YOUR CHILD UNCONDITIONALLY ,AND SUPPORT THEIR DREAMS, AND PASSIONS. STOP BEING AFRAID THAT YOUR SEED WILL OUT SHINE YOU.

 

IT’S A DUMB ASS FEAR IF YOU ASK ME……………..

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